soulmates, Twin Flames

Soulmate – Twinflame Runner & Chaser Explained

Divine soulmates and twin flames can go through many challenging times when they are in the process of Union. Their separation is part of the process and sometimes, it can be unbearable and extremely painful. They are releasing and surrendering energies in order to reunite. As they mirror and reflect one another’s issues and fear-based energies, it continues on a vicious emotional cycle that seems endless with emotional pain while past wounds are brought up to the surface. When you are apart from your twin flame, this is helping the both of you to heal on your own in order to understand what you both have been holding onto and released. The energy with connecting and disconnecting goes into a deep intensity that helps you both to awaken and come to a sacred balance with one another. Even though you two may be apart, the compelling energy that you two share will bond your souls together. This can also repeat itself over again if both souls are not ready. So you may think that you are completely open and ready, that you have released all that you needed to release, this is when you will discover that there is more to come. Both of your spirits need to evolve healing and let go of past emotional negativities, either in this life or previous lifetimes. You will experience many things that your twin is feeling and vice versa. The both of you will find that you are experiencing things simultaneously but separated. As you both find your paths, the energy can shift and reunite, these are things that you are trying to create a bridge with and to bring you closer to your twin. That seems to be a struggle every time you initiate. You will find that it has to start first on focusing and on working on you. Divine union can only happen when both of you are ready to emerge as one. It is very common for both twin flames too be in the runner stages. They both may feel completely consumed emotionally by this intense connection and at the same time lost on which way to turn to. So they both are running from something that they completely don’t understand but know that something is about to happen. Runners and chasers are actually both runners. It’s very difficult to change what you feel in your Heart. You will feel intense energy that you know is something that is meant for you and vice versa. This is what creates the runner phase in both twin flames (soulmates too). Both are searching for the exact same thing, as you two are looked in each other eyes when you first met, you can see the Mirror of your authentic self and soul.. deeper than you have ever felt with anyone in the past There is a deep bond that is felt throughout your whole body and spiritual magnetism that you feel is raising your vibration, for the both of you. This is when your soul consciousness wakes up and you’ll actually see your life completely different. Your life will change taking a 360 degrees and things will never be the same from what you thought was your soul path. It’s a very beautiful and blissful experience, but also getting there can bring on the most painful emotional energy that you will ever feel in your life. There’s a divine purpose of why both of you must go through your own Life lessons and soul journeys on your own in order to find your authentic selves and to be together. Being together will only cause negativity and triggered up past wounds; which need to be released and healed. Working apart will actually help both of you find your soul centers. Many times, it can be while meeting other people in order to get there, sometimes being with other people will help you realize how much you need your other half. Though you may be more awake and may not need to go through that extreme but your twin might have to… I know that this is a painful and very sensitive subject, but many people go through the distance for many years before they do come into a divine union. This is when we need to focus on who we truly are and our authentic identity, everything that has happened in our past and what we need to do to heal ourselves to a higher level. It’s best not to obsess over what should’ve happened and think about the past, in order to move forward and focus on what you need to do to make things better in your life. The main focus is letting go of what was, live in the present moment, the here and the now. Focusing on positivity and looking at your life optimistically for the future, knowing that things happened for a reason in order for you to get stronger to who you are today. This will also be reciprocated back to your divine Soulmate, focusing on positive energy has a strong affect by helping your other half. Your divine partner is afraid of the connection because of who they were, because of the ego identity that they need to release and how they need to change internally to evolve spiritually. This may involve them hitting rock-bottom, finding the dark areas in theirs and your life that need to be eliminated in order to move forward. Though you may hear things about your divine partner or twin flame from friends, colleagues or even on social media, it’s all about what they need to do in order to get it right.

The soulmate connection at the base of it all

We can connect with happiness and be comfortable with that person with a very little effort (there is more work with Twin flame). We find ourselves in a very compatible type of love relationship and partnerships.

There is the karmic soulmate connection where you feel a very intense feeling for that person which come in your life to help you and teach you things. Sometimes the lessons can be extremely painful but is necessary to go thru those to grow spiritually.

Twin Souls or Twin Flames connection

There is an instant compelling attraction of energy where the spiritual energy of two spirits connect over time, over a certain distance and most of the time over the years. Usually, there is an initial meeting of Twinflames; one half is more spiritually “awakened” and the other half may need time to awake… this can take time.
There is always one half who is the strongest vessel. After realizing that the two half have more energy to share together, this often refers to the chaser who is always looking for answers like “why things ended the way they did”… never having closure.

Twinflames can remain in contact, but more likely the two that have broken apart and are separated for many years are working on their own, living & dealing with their own karma with other situations before being able to reunite, after many years.


The Chaser is able to feel the intensity of this relationship; he understands that it is extremely special. This feeling is always a lingering feeling that even himself, the chaser, doesn’t consciously know what to expect.

The intensity of love that the chaser feels for their twin flame is a lot more than they have ever felt before. When the Twinflame Runner just decides to run away without any warning, the chaser will feel an intense emotional surge of energy and this is usually way more than they can handle.

At this point, they will do almost anything to help out and to get back together with the Runner.


 The pain from those past lives comes back when the Runner runs away

The Chaser knows that there is a deeper meaning to their love relationship and that they need be together. he has a feeling inside that everything fits like a puzzle, that both of them complete each other.

There can be an emotional pain, even more when there are reminders, like memories of previous past lives when they were disconnected (be sure to read my previous post about Past life Soulmates).

 The Chaser might be confused, he or she might not even be able to understand why this is so strong and why he has never felt this way with anyone else? And all this will continue, waiting for the Runner, knowing that he can’t lose the Runner in this life time… no matter what.

That is when an awakening happens; understanding the sacred intensity of this relationship, of this connection and finally understanding that Twinflames belong together, no matter what. This is very difficult for the Chaser and this takes time. Once the runner phase is over and that the Runner realizes where they both are at… they will actually return to each other in order to be reunited.

With everything the Twinflame Chaser is going through, the runner will return

They are created and meant for each other and as long as they both are on Earth, anything or anyone can take them away. Twinflames are connected by an eternal sacred soul bond, connection that never ends or neither can be broken.

Twinflames will come back to each other once they are fully ready to handle the intensity of this connection. It can take some time and chasing him or her is not going to speed things up.

During the connection process, both Twin souls need to remain strong. Twin flame connections never happen at the most convenient or “right” time, where they are usually already in committed relationships, having money issues, and living miles apart; there are many practical reasons why those two shouldn’t be together. Very commonly, it can also be a drastic difference in age, cultures or religion… the list goes on but they still manage to be together no matter what the circumstances are.


Relationship between Twin flames are extremely spiritual and you must understand everything that you can about twinflame relationships; the more you explore your own spirituality and the easier it becomes.

You can read more about story with me being the Runner in my Twin Flame connection

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